How to Heal a Broken Heart

          Being inlove is the most wonderful feeling in the world. You've got to experience things that you never expect to happen. You feel emotions that you never felt before. Love is an unexplainable feeling, sometimes you are happy, sometimes you are sad, sometimes you have your own world and most of the time you are fool. When you are inlove, frequently you feel ecstatic, there's always an excitement, you always feel there were butterflies in your stomach, you feel like you're in cloud nine.

          Part of being inlove is to experience being hurt. To have a broken heart. You can never explain where it hurts, maybe it's your heart, maybe it your head, maybe it's in you - as a whole. Some people say, why should you love if you know in the end, you will get hurt. As if being in the place of a moth who tried to burn itself to a candle light. Let's look it in positive way, being hurt  can make you a stronger, developed you to become a better person, you can be cautious the next time and you can easily manage your decisions and problems.

          So, how can you really mend a broken heart? I am giving you now the tips on how to moved on.

1. Acceptance - accept that you are now single. Do not keep on recalling the past, and the memories you have to easily throw away the burden of a broken relationship.

2. Let go- There are stuffs that you keep that resembles your past. Bury them. The past should be the past, a history. Bury the stuff toys he/she gave you during your monthsary or anniversary, delete all his/her pictures you have. Donate the couple shirt you keep for so long and burn all the letters he/she wrote.

3. Me time- This is the time you should look unto yourself. Spend time with your family and friends. Go to salon and treat yourself a makeover. Participate in a group activity and sports. Make yourself pre-occupied.

4.Go on a date- Part of moving on is to meet new people and welcome new relationships. Do not hold on to your failure past and get ready to mingle.

5. Be friend with your ex. Time comes, you will need them.


           Truly moved-on individual does not have a feeling of bitterness towards the past relationship. Be strong, be happy, be you. Listen to happy music, appreciate the wonder of places around you. Remember, "Love isn't something you find. Love is something that finds you." - Loretta Young